Anal sex is often a debate about sexual liberation and exploration vs. sexual inhibition, but the overwhelming majority of females say no to anal sex. No doubt it can be fun and pleasurable if done right with a willing partner, but these are some of the many reasons women prefer to go without anal sex:
The Pain Factor
“It hurts” is the number one reason women say no to anal sex. They are more likely to be put off more if their man has a larger penis as they fear the pain will be intensified.
Its a homosexual desire
It may just be a way for a woman to mock her man and get out of having anal sex, and bigoted a reason as it is, its ranks highly on the excuses women give to avoid anal sex.
The EWWW Factor
Lots of women are turned off by the very thought of they man’s penis going in their anal passage, somewhere they see as a dirty place and more of an exit than an entrance. Some women just find it totally disgusting.
Sexually, it’s pointless
According to many women, biologically there isn’t much in the anus that can give a woman pleasure from anal sex, its more of a psychological thing or pleasing their man, which renders it pointless for them.
We live in a time where spurned lovers post all sorts of images online and reveal too many intimate secrets of past relationships on social media, which is a fear factor for many women who don’t trust their partner enough o engage in anal sex.
Anal sex can and often does lead to bleeding from that area, something many women do not want to experience. For women with hemorrhoids anal sex is a definite no-no.
Fear Of Health Issues
Some women have said that too much anal sex has left their butt stretched out and even have issues controlling it.
Whatever the reason, if a woman doesn’t wish to try anal sex, that should be respected. A lot of long term couples do end up trying anal sex, as a way of sprucing up their love life, the most common occurrence of anal sex outside of same-sex male relationships. Please note, it’s also just as important to wear a condom when having anal sex.